First Reconciliation

The Sacrament of Reconciliation

"The whole power of the Sacrament of Penance consists in restoring us to God's grace and joining us with him in an intimate friendship. Reconciliation with God is thus the purpose and effect of this sacrament. For those who receive the Sacrament of Penance with contrite heart and religious disposition, reconciliation is usually followed by peace and serenity of conscience with strong spiritual consolation. Indeed the Sacrament of Reconciliation with God brings about a true "spiritual resurrection", restoration of the dignity and blessings of the life of the children of God, of which the most precious is friendship with God."  (CCC n.1468)

First Reconciliation is held in St. Thomas More Church. We ask that families arrive 15 minutes early in church attire and sit together. Nametags will be provided for your child to wear so the priest will be able to call your child by name. There will be stations set up around the church with the priest to meet with the children for the Sacrament of Reconciliation. Ushers will come and collect your child from the pew and guide your child on where to go.  We will recite the Act of Contrition together as a whole community. We will practice this sacrament during the First Reconciliation Family Retreat and ask that you also practice at home so that your child feels confident in what they need to do and say.

There are four options for the preparation of children for First Reconciliation at St. Thomas More Parish:

1. Students enrolled at St. Thomas More School prepare in School during Second Grade.
2. Students enrolled in the Elementary Faith Development program prepare over two years in First and Second Grade. For catechesis students use the "Be My Disciples" Second Grade book.
3. Students who are older than Second Grade enroll in the "Sacramental Preparation" class in Elementary Faith Development and use the Benziger "Reconciliation, Pardon and Peace" book.
4. Students in Home Catechesis may prepare for Reconciliation with their parents after consultation with the Director of Elementary Faith Development, using these same materials.

The most helpful preparation for all students is the example and practice of their parents, to live a conscious Christian life at home, of prayer, reading the Scriptures, striving to follow God's law, expressing sorrow for sin and readily granting forgiveness, and regular celebration of the Sacrament of Reconcilation, both individually and at communal celebrations.

First Reconciliation Retreats

The Elementary Faith Development Department of the parish has arranged Retreats to help parents and children prepare together for the Sacrament of Reconciliation. Every child who will celebrate the Sacrament of Reconciliation this year is required to participate together with their parent/s. Childcare will be available for younger siblings.